Changing seasons bring many new emotions and transformations to our world every year. Winter turning to spring has brought these feelings back, along with a new feeling I have felt only one other time.
I am graduating this May, but this graduation is different. Looking back at myself only a short four years ago, I see so much change from who I used to be. This spring, as the months have gone on, I have been both counting down and stretching out the days as the end creeps up on me. Reflecting on my college career and what I have accomplished so far in my life has become part of my routine this spring.
I came into college as a timid oldest child who had very few people to ask for tips about the process. Living in Men’s Hall helped break me out of my shell, only second to experiencing Panhellenic sorority recruitment and finding out who I really wanted to become in college.
Through my time at UNK, I have learned the true power of passion, confidence and authenticity. Though gaining these skills took time, there are a few things I can reflect on that helped to forge these paths.
The first piece of advice I can give is to apply for and try everything once. No matter how big or small the activity or task may be, just go for it. The worst that can happen is that it does not work out, so you just decide not to do it again. I chose to do this when I applied for my current position as the Fraternity and Sorority Life student worker. I had no idea it would lead to me learning so much from new people within a community I care for so deeply.
Secondly, I urge you to be patient with your path. It may not always go your way in the beginning, but if you learn to trust your gut, it will take you where you need to be. Being confident in this path and that you will find what is right for you will take you so far. I initially wanted to not accept my internship position during my sophomore year because it was not the one I applied for, but I eventually decided to, and it led me to working with the company for three years.
The final guidance I can give is to be yourself through the process of college. Do not lose sight of what you value through the process of finding where you fit in life and what you will become. Your authenticity can carry you through so much – job interviews, club memberships, homecoming royalty candidacies and so much more. Being you is the best thing you can do for yourself.
As I come to a close on my academic journey and reflect on these skills I have learned, I realize how many people I have had help me along the way. Once you find that group of constant support, hold it close forever.
Graduating may mean the end of life as you know it, but it also can be the start of something even bigger. Take your opportunities as they come with pride for your own journey and confidence in what is ahead.
